
Costly worship isn’t flashy or polished. It doesn’t always sound beautiful or feel easy. But it’s the kind of worship that moves God’s heart.
We often think of worship as a song or service, but at its core, worship is a response. It’s a giving of ourselves back to the One who gave everything. Sometimes that giving costs us comfort, control, or even reputation. But those are the moments when worship becomes more than just praise. It becomes a sacrifice.
When Worship Feels Inconvenient
Years ago, I had a choice to make. My friend was hosting a worship night at her home, and she invited a few of us to join. It was a 1-hour drive, I’d just come off a long day, and the last thing I wanted was to leave the comfort of my couch.
But I sensed God tugging. So I went.
That night, something broke loose inside of me. As voices lifted in spontaneous praise, God met me with healing I didn’t even know I needed. Tears came, and peace followed. That drive cost me time, gas money, and rest. But it became one of the most sacred moments of my year.
Worship doesn’t always look like standing in a sanctuary. Sometimes, it’s driving two hours round-trip. Sometimes, it’s forgiving someone. Sometimes, it’s raising your hands when your heart feels heavy. And sometimes, it’s choosing praise in the middle of your pain.
The Alabaster Jar and the Heart of Worship

The Bible gives us one of the clearest pictures of costly worship in John 12:3:
“Then Mary took about a pint of pure nard, an expensive perfume; she poured it on Jesus’ feet and wiped his feet with her hair. And the house was filled with the fragrance of the perfume.”
Mary’s perfume was worth a year’s wages. Her act wasn’t practical. It was scandalous! People murmured. Judas scoffed. But Jesus received her offering with honor and defended her extravagant love.
That’s what worship does. It breaks the jar. It pours it all out. And it fills the room with a fragrance only heaven can measure.
Giving God Our Best—Even When It Hurts
We live in a world that values convenience and return-on-investment. But Kingdom worship flips the script. It says, “Even if no one sees. Even if no one claps. Even if it costs me. I’ll still bring my best to the altar.”
Romans 12:1 reminds us:
“Offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God—this is your true and proper worship.”
Not your leftovers. Not your scraps. Your body. Your time. Your energy. Your plans. That’s true worship.

And yes, it may feel costly.
- Waking early to pray.
 - Serving when you’re exhausted.
 - Tithing when finances are tight.
 - Choosing obedience when compromise feels easier.
 
But every act of worship offered in surrender draws us deeper into intimacy with Him.
Worship That Costs Becomes Worship That Transforms
When we talk about WORSHIP: When Our Relationship Serves Him In Praise, we’re reminded that this isn’t about performance. It’s about posture. Our relationship with God becomes visible when we choose to serve, obey, and offer praise in ways that stretch us.
Costly worship matures our faith. It also:
- Invites transformation.
 - Loosens our grip on idols.
 - Roots our praise not in what we feel, but in Who He is.
 
That’s the kind of worship that fills the throne room with fragrance.
Let Worship Be Your Offering Today
So what will your alabaster jar be this week? Maybe it’s:
- Choosing silence over venting.
 - Singing through tears.
 - Simply showing up when it’s easier to stay home.
 
Wherever you are, whatever your circumstance, know this: God sees the cost. He honors the offering and the sacrifice. And He delights in a heart fully yielded in worship.
Let your worship cost something, because when it does, it becomes the most beautiful gift of all.